{"id":52902,"date":"2021-07-09T16:18:44","date_gmt":"2021-07-09T20:18:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com\/?p=11348"},"modified":"2025-04-28T08:20:04","modified_gmt":"2025-04-28T12:20:04","slug":"how-to-motivate-yourself","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.iwillteachyoutoberich.com\/how-to-motivate-yourself\/","title":{"rendered":"How To Motivate Yourself: 4 Tips (no cold showers needed)"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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The lie we most want to believe is that we\u2019ll have motivation tomorrow. We\u2019re sold the fantasy that tomorrow we\u2019ll be a better version of ourselves and miraculously start meal-prepping and read two books a month. In fact, a billion-dollar industry rides on our ability to dream, but not act. Wondering how to motivate yourself?\u00a0<\/p>\n

Motivation allows you to build systems to keep you going even when you don\u2019t feel like it. Think of motivation as the hyperdrive switch that helps Han Solo and Chewbacca traverse galaxies. Hyperdrive isn\u2019t sustainable when it\u2019s on all the time, but for short bursts, it gets the team from A to B.\u00a0 Do you know what I mean? So let\u2019s activate our internal hyperdrive.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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Step 1: Plan for Failure<\/h2>\n

Now, this seems counterintuitive, doesn\u2019t it? But the great\u00a0BJ Fogg<\/a>, founder and director of Stanford University’s Behavior Design Lab, says that we\u2019re to assume that our future self will be lazy. It\u2019s okay. Take a moment to catch your breath and chant affirmations in the mirror. This statement is in no way designed to dissuade you from embarking on the ultimate \u201chow to get motivated\u201d journey, but rather highlight why we so desperately need it.<\/p>\n

Make it easy for your future self<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s important to start thinking of your motivation reservoir as a tiny little vessel with random bursts of refilling. Better yet:<\/p>\n

Motivation = short term\u00a0<\/p>\n

So what the heck do we do? Well, there\u2019s always endless streaming and online shopping. But that\u2019s not sustainable, amiright? So what\u2019s the long-term solution? The equation looks a little like this right now:\u00a0<\/p>\n

? = long term<\/p>\n

Back to BJ Fogg. A popular anecdote he likes to use is when he was on a journey to drink more tea. So instead of waking up in the morning shuffling through the cabinet and putting a pot to boil for some of that leafy goodness, he realized that motivation wouldn\u2019t last. So he set up a tea station including his favorite variants of tea. An electric kettle and easy access to cups meant it was easier for him to reach for tea. Even when he felt for coffee.\u00a0<\/p>\n

And herein lies the key. He set up a system that allowed him to continue his new behavior even when his motivation was low. He made it easier for his future self.\u00a0So this is what the formula looks like now:\u00a0<\/p>\n

Systems = long term<\/p>\n

Be persistent<\/h3>\n

How long does it take to form a habit? Well, the jury\u2019s out and we know the 21-day standard is not only inaccurate but dangerously ridiculous. Imagine training an athlete who never ran long distances before to run a marathon. In 21 days. So if it\u2019s farfetched for the athlete, why would you put yourself under such a load of stress to change something so ingrained in your everyday routine?\u00a0<\/p>\n

Research reveals<\/a> that it can take far longer for your brain to adopt a new process. 66 days are the new minimum and close to a year for the max, but here\u2019s the kicker, the research was done way back in 2009! So why are we still touting the 21-day habit of mumbo jumbo? Because it\u2019s convenient, and it feeds that billion-dollar motivation industry by keeping you on an endless rollercoaster of motivation to attempt to fail to guilt to shame, and you guessed it, back to motivation.<\/p>\n

Now, if you know that it will take you anywhere from two months to a year to form a new habit, you\u2019re far less likely to kick it after a month. Right?<\/p>\n

So here\u2019s the thing. Even if you have a system, it won\u2019t work until you do. That\u2019s where persistence comes in.<\/p>\n

Step 2: Put it on your calendar<\/h2>\n

Forget all the gizmos and gadgets that supposedly help you become more productive. I\u2019m talking about those tools that actually distract you from the task at hand.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Repeat after me: Calendar is king.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Once you learn how to effectively use your calendar, there\u2019s no need to clutter your phone with apps that will drive you crazy as you discreetly dismiss yet another ping.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Keep motivational tools to a minimum<\/h3>\n

Bet this heading caught you by surprise! You were probably expecting a long list of tools, books, podcasts, and conferences that you simply had to attend to get you going. But no, Mando, this is not the way.<\/p>\n

Before we plunge headfirst into this, we\u2019re not saying that motivational tools are bad. What we are saying is not all motivational tools are created equal. You should only use the tools that actually give you a boost and not take up more of your precious resources, such as time and money.<\/p>\n

All these do is add to your already enormous pile of things you won\u2019t get to, which just increases your guilt. So what the heck are we supposed to do?<\/p>\n

Use the bare minimum. Don\u2019t get distracted by the shiny lights and glittery icons. This is a good time to harness your inner minimalist and only use what you absolutely need. A pen, a notebook, a calendar. For those who are fully digital, sure, the Notes app will do.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re also going to go through a real big purge. If your biggest area of zero motivation lies in cleaning your house, the job isn\u2019t going to get done by watching 50 YouTube channels that tell you how to clean. Purge, purge, purge. Whittle it down to the one that inspires or motivates the most and you\u2019re done. Spend the minimum amount of time boosting your motivation and when your tank is full, you go for it!\u00a0<\/p>\n

Just think of it this way, it\u2019s hardly worth going through your stack of motivation tools when it takes 3 hours to build up motivation for a half-hour task.<\/p>\n

How about the wannabe fitness fanatic who has the best gear, books, and videos? Subscription to a gym with all the amenities you could ever dream of? Yet still lacks the motivation to get their kit and caboodle on an exercise bike? It might not be the motivation that you need but focus.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s talk about focus for a second<\/h3>\n

What if the area you\u2019re looking to improve is your overall fitness? You\u2019ve got all your systems in place,\u00a0gear laid out in the mornings<\/a>, etc. but you\u2019re still failing to launch. It could be that there is a small component missing: focus.<\/p>\n

Noah Kagan<\/a>, founder of AppSumo says that the key to reaching his goals lies in the ability to whittle the goal down to its simplest form. Let the simplest form of your goal become your sole focus.<\/p>\n

Now let\u2019s look at your fitness journey. What if you focus on one element and say that you want to be able to run 5 miles in 6 months. Now, it becomes easier to set monthly, weekly, and daily targets to meet that goal. That means that when it\u2019s time to go to the gym, you know what is expected of you and what the goal is.<\/p>\n

How about cleaning your house? What if the goal is to be clutter-free every night before bed? Once this becomes a habit, it becomes far simpler to add to the list. Before you know it, in a couple of months you\u2019re finding it easier to keep up with the Martha Stewarts.<\/p>\n

Plan ahead and set reminders<\/h3>\n

It\u2019s the day before the deadline and you know it takes around ten hours to complete the project, only, it\u2019s 10 PM and the project is due first thing in the morning. If you can relate, it\u2019s either a case of work overload or, dare we say it, procrastination. Yes, that despicable \u201cp\u201d word has landed many of us in a fair load of trouble.<\/p>\n

Face it, when you\u2019re rushing to get the job done, is it up to standard? More importantly, is it up to your desired standard? Prolly not.<\/p>\n

When you plan ahead, you\u2019re able to accommodate pitfalls and distractions more effectively because you\u2019re doing the bulk of the work over a period of time. When you don\u2019t, the bulk of the work likely gets done at number 99.\u00a0<\/p>\n

So the only natural thing to do is download a productivity tool that\u2026 No. You\u2019re going to get out of your calendar. A month to view is a good place to start if you have fixed dates for certain projects. Set reminders along the way that encourage you to reach certain milestones by certain dates. It\u2019s hard to ignore reminders when they\u2019re specific.\u00a0<\/p>\n

When you slowly incorporate this system with persistence, you\u2019ll unlock pockets of time you didn\u2019t know you had.\u00a0<\/p>\n

Those who are in control of their projects may find it hard to set a clock on a workday. Think project managers or business owners. When you\u2019re able to set mini-goals along the way and you persistently meet those goals, you can put a start and end time to your workday.<\/p>\n

Anyone who has found themselves burning the candle at both ends will know how precious a start and end time is, especially when it feels like other areas of your life are suffering. Work your system before it works you.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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